Have you ever felt disappointed because something you thought was going to happen didn’t happen?
Maybe it turned out that either the plan got changed or it wasn’t going to happen the way you thought and you go ‘I didn’t want that to happen’?
That disappointment was happening to me once and I thought ‘you know I just need to fix my wanter here.’ As soon as I said ‘I need to fix my wanter’ I felt empowered and liberated. I thought you know what? This isn’t my first choice but I could still turn this situation into something wonderful.
I would just encourage you today to practice this moving from disappointment to empowerment. Know that you can fix your wanter any time you want to.